Upcoming & Past Events

Other Past Events

Did you join us for our April 28th (2024) “The Death Deck: Game and Conversation with a Death Doula“ event and you're looking for related info? Or perhaps you missed us and want a taste of what went down? Check out the event page for links and goodies!

Stay tuned for more in 2025

Previously offered at the Sunnyvale Public Library

See a previous listing on the death cafe site

South Bay Death Cafe

I co-led several Death Cafes with Ka Yun Cheng in 2024, with the Sunnyvale Public Library as a generous location sponsor. A new set of volunteers has offered to continue this Death Cafe into the future, providing space for discussions of death over tea and cake.

At a Death Cafe, people—often strangers—gather to discuss death. The objective is to increase awareness of death with a view towards helping people make the most of their (finite) lives. The experience tends to be a group discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a place to talk and explore, rather than a grief support or counseling session.

See a previous listing on the global Death Cafe site.

Death Cafes help people in ALL phases of life talk about death and dying in a supportive, unstructured way. Death Cafe is a concept that originated in the UK, and are currently held in over 88 countries. Read more about Death Cafes on the global Death Cafe website. The site is a great resource for finding upcoming Death Cafes near you, some virtual, and many in-person.

Death Cafes are always:
- Free
- Open to, and respectful of, people of all communities and belief systems.
- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space
- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

In-person Stanford Continuing Studies course,
WELL 29: Design Your Departure - A Creative Approach to End-of-Life Planning

This was a 6-week, in-person class in the Stanford Continuing Studies Program, designed to be a non-scary, thought-provoking, and design-informed approach to End-of-Life planning, for young and old. The class was very popular, and I’ve continued to evolve the content and offer it in small-group settings. If you have a community that would be interested in running this course, or a subset of this course, please contact me.

Summer 2024

Stanford Continuing Studies
Class met on Stanford campus
Palo Alto, California, Monday evenings 6:30—8:20 pm (PT)